Jakarta, super-sensitive question 'when mating?' become a mental terror for some singles. Compared to men, women more often get questions like this at a family gathering moments such as Eid.
"Usually women are more frequently asked questions about the wedding," said Anna Surti Ariani, M. Psi, a psychologist Family of Integrated Clinic, School of Psychology, University of Indonesia, told detikHealth as written on Monday (07/28/2014).
According to the psychologist who is familiarly called the Nina, it is not separated from the assumption that most people do not deserve too long women delaying the age of marriage. Men tend to be because the need to pursue a career to support his family.
Such a supposition is what makes women tend to be more serious about addressing these questions. While it might be asked only for preamble, it is not likely carry so mind. Unlike men who can take it just sort of indifferent joke.
Nina admits it is difficult to avoid questions like this. In Indonesian culture makes this a very sensitive question as usual, even people are not always aware of the psychological impact on others when the question 'when to marry?' delivered.
"Too often asked could make people who asked annoyed. Consequently they become upset, and the most extreme can ya go ballistic or may refuse to come to a family event," added Nina.
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